20 Women Reveal What They Secretly Want in Bed
Here’s what she’s been too shy to tell you. You may be pleasantly surprised at what she wants to try By Zahra Barnes Most of us feel more awkward talking about sex than we do actually having it. In fact, many couples avoid the subject, says Kristen Mark, Ph.D., a sex researcher at the University of Kentucky. And as a result, you may have no idea what the person you’re sleeping with really wants—or doesn’t want—in the sack. To help you both out, we asked 20 women what they secretly crave in bed. Keep these requests in mind—you may find it’s what your partner desires, too. Don’t be so polite Spank her. Tie her up. Pin her against the wall. Several of the women we polled privately wish for rougher sex. “I want my husband to be more aggressive!” says one wife. “I’m not talking whips, chains, and 50 Shades , but a little rougher and more domineering.” Some women fantasize about relinquishing control because they’re in charge a